Umuyobozi mukuru

Ingingo ya kabiri nshaka gusangira nabantu bose ninkuru ivuga kubindi bisobanuro byubuziranenge. Nsubije amaso inyuma muri 2012, numvaga narumiwe igihe cyose kandi ntanumwe washoboraga kumpa igisubizo. Ndetse no kwiga no gushakisha ntibishobora gukemura gushidikanya kwanjye. Igihe namaze iminsi 30 mu Buhinde mu Kwakira 2012, ni bwo naje kubona ko hari ibintu byose bigenewe kandi nta kintu na kimwe gishobora guhinduka. Kubera ko nizeraga ibizabaho, naretse kwiga no gushakisha kandi sinshaka gukora iperereza ku mpamvu. Ariko inshuti yanjye ntiyanyemereye, kandi yaranyishyuye ngo nige mu ishuri kandi nige kuri "Imbaraga z'imbuto". Nyuma yimyaka, nasanze ibirimo byari bigize "Diamond Sutra".

Icyo gihe, nise ubu bumenyi nyirabayazana, bivuze icyo ubiba nicyo usarura. Ariko no kumenya uku kuri, haracyari ibihe byo gutsinda, umunezero, gucika intege, nububabare mubuzima. Iyo nahuye n'ibibazo n'ingorane, nashakaga kubiryoza abandi cyangwa kureka inshingano kuko ntibyari byoroshye kandi birababaza, kandi sinashakaga kwemera ko ibyo byatewe nanjye ubwanjye.

Igihe kinini, nakomeje iyi ngeso yo gukuraho ibibazo mugihe duhuye. Mu mpera z'umwaka wa 2016, ubwo nari naniwe ku mubiri no mu mutwe ni bwo natangiye gutekereza: niba izo ngorane mu buzima zatewe na njye ubwanjye, ibibazo byanjye biri he? Kuva icyo gihe, natangiye kwitegereza ibibazo byanjye bwite, ntekereza uburyo bwo kubikemura, kandi ngerageza gushaka impamvu n'inzira zo gutekereza uhereye kubibazo bikemuka. Byantwaye ibyumweru bine ubwambere, ariko buhoro buhoro bigabanuka kugeza ku minota mike.

Igisobanuro cyubwiza ntabwo ari ubwiza bwibicuruzwa gusa, ahubwo kirimo umuco wibikorwa, urwego rwubuyobozi, inyungu zubukungu, nibindi bintu. Mugihe kimwe, ubuziranenge burimo imyitwarire yumuntu, indangagaciro, nuburyo bwo gutekereza. Gusa mugihe duhora tuzamura ireme ryibigo nabantu kugiti cyabo dushobora kwerekeza munzira igana ku ntsinzi.

Niba dusomye igitabo cyitwa "Ubuyobozi bwa Karma", kivuga ko ibihe byose turimo biterwa na karma yacu, ntidushobora gutungurwa cyane. Turashobora kumva ko twungutse ubumenyi cyangwa dufite ubushishozi bushya, kandi nibyo. Ariko, mugihe dukomeje gutekereza kumibereho yacu, tumenya ko mubyukuri byose biterwa nibitekerezo byacu, amagambo, nibikorwa byacu. Ubwoko nk'ubwo bwo guhungabana ntagereranywa.

Dukunze gutekereza ko turi abantu beza, ariko umunsi umwe iyo tumenye ko twibeshye, ingaruka ni ngombwa. Kuva icyo gihe kugeza ubu, hashize imyaka itandatu cyangwa irindwi, igihe cyose mbonye byimbitse kunanirwa kwanjye no gusubira inyuma sinshaka kubyemera, nzi ko byatewe nanjye ubwanjye. Nzi neza cyane iri tegeko rya nyirabayazana. Mubyukuri, ibihe byose turimo biterwa n'imyizerere yacu cyangwa imyitwarire yacu. Imbuto twabibye kera zarangije kumera, kandi ibyo tubona uyumunsi nigisubizo tugomba kwishakira ubwacu. Kuva muri Mutarama 2023, sinshidikanya kuri ibi. Mfite uburambe bwo kumva icyo bisobanura kudashidikanya.

Mbere, nari umuntu wigunze udakunda gusabana cyangwa no guhura imbona nkubone. Ariko nyuma yo kumenya neza amategeko ya nyirabayazana, nari nzi neza ko ntamuntu numwe kwisi ushobora kumbabaza keretse niyangiriye. Ndasa nkaho narushijeho gusohoka, niteguye gusabana nabantu, no kujya mubucuruzi imbonankubone. Kera nagize akamenyero ko kutajya mubitaro niyo naba ndwaye kuko natinyaga kuvugana nabaganga. Noneho ndumva ko aribwo buryo bwanjye bwo kwikingira bwirinda ubwenge kugirango nirinde kubabaza iyo dusabana nabantu.

Uyu mwaka umwana wanjye yararwaye, ndamujyana mu bitaro. Hariho kandi ibibazo bijyanye nishuri ryumwana wanjye na serivisi zo kugura ikigo. Nagize ibyiyumvo bitandukanye nubunararibonye muriyi nzira. Dukunze kugira uburambe nkubu: iyo tubonye umuntu udashobora kurangiza umurimo mugihe cyangwa udashobora kugikora neza, igituza kirababara kandi twumva turakaye. Ni ukubera ko twasezeranye byinshi kubijyanye nubwiza nigihe cyo gutanga, ariko ntidushobora kubisohoza. Muri icyo gihe, twizeraga abandi, ariko twababajwe na bo.

Nibihe byambayeho cyane? Nibwo najyanye umuryango wanjye kubonana na muganga mpura numuganga udasanzwe wavuze neza ariko udashobora gukemura ikibazo na gato. Cyangwa igihe umwana wanjye yagiye mwishuri, twahuye nabarimu badafite inshingano, ibyo bikaba byarakaje umuryango wose. Ariko, iyo duhisemo gufatanya nabandi, kwizerana nimbaraga nabyo birabahabwa. Mugihe cyo kugura serivisi, nahuye nabacuruzi cyangwa ibigo bivuga gusa ariko bidashobora gutanga.

Kuberako nizera rwose amategeko yimpamvu, nabanje kwemera ibisubizo nkibi. Nabonye ko bigomba guterwa n'amagambo n'ibikorwa byanjye bwite, bityo ngomba kwemera ibisubizo nkibi. Ariko umuryango wanjye wararakaye cyane kandi urakara, numva ko barenganijwe muri uyu muryango kandi birababaza cyane. Kubwibyo, nkeneye gutekereza cyane kubyabaye biganisha kubisubizo byuyu munsi.

Muri iki gikorwa, nasanze buriwese ashobora gutekereza gusa gushaka amafaranga mugihe atangiye umushinga cyangwa gukurikirana amafaranga, atabanje kuba umunyamwuga mbere yo gutanga serivisi cyangwa gusezeranya abandi. Nanjye nahoze meze gutya. Iyo turi injiji, dushobora kugirira nabi abandi muri societe, kandi dushobora no kugirirwa nabi nabandi. Ukuri nukuri tugomba kubyemera kuko mubyukuri twakoze ibintu byinshi bibabaza abakiriya bacu.

Ariko, mugihe kizaza, turashobora kugira ibyo duhindura kugirango tutazateza ibibazo byinshi no kugirira nabi twe ubwacu nabacu mugihe dukurikirana amafaranga nitsinzi. Ngiyo ngingo nshaka gusangira nabantu bose kubijyanye nubwiza.

Nibyo, amafaranga ni ngombwa mubikorwa byacu kuko ntidushobora kubaho tutayifite. Ariko, amafaranga, nubwo ari ngombwa, ntabwo aricyo kintu cyingenzi. Niba duteye ibibazo byinshi muburyo bwiza bwo gushaka amafaranga, amaherezo, twe nabakunzi bacu tuzahura ningaruka mubuzima butandukanye, ntawushaka kubona.

Ubwiza ni ingenzi cyane kuri twe. Mbere ya byose, irashobora kutuzanira amabwiriza menshi, ariko icy'ingenzi, natwe turimo gushiraho uburyo bwiza bwo kwishima kuri twe ubwacu ndetse nabacu dukunda ejo hazaza. Iyo tuguze ibicuruzwa cyangwa serivisi zitangwa nabandi, dushobora kandi kubona serivisi nziza. Ninimpamvu nyamukuru ituma dushimangira ubuziranenge. Gukurikirana ireme ni urukundo dukunda ubwacu n'imiryango yacu. Nicyerekezo twese tugomba guharanira hamwe.

Altruism ihebuje ni kwikunda bihebuje. Ntabwo dukurikirana ubuziranenge ntabwo dukunda abakiriya bacu gusa cyangwa ngo tubone ayo mabwiriza, ariko cyane cyane, kwikunda no kubo dukunda.